Don’t Let Finances Wreck Your Relationship

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By Cortney Meng

Anybody in a relationship knows that love and money will invariably intersect. Relationships are partnerships, and managing finances simply comes with the territory. But the results of a recent survey conducted by SunTrust Bank revealed that finances are the primary culprit for many couples’ relationship stress. According to the survey, 35 percent of respondents cited financial management as the biggest cause of friction with their partner—ten percent higher than second place finisher, annoying habits.

The issue is much bigger than figuring out whether or not to split a restaurant bill. Financial management underlies most of the big decisions that couples will make together, from marriage, having children, purchasing a home, to taking a vacation or planning for retirement. Without developing a stress-free financial planning strategy, couples may end up overwhelmed, stressed out and never attain the goals they set for themselves.

In order to make sure that you and your partner don’t let finances become a bone of contention in your relationship, consider adopting some of these practices for managing your money together.

Set your budget around shared financial goals. If only one partner in a relationship is concerned about reaching a financial benchmark, your finances are likely to become a stressor. To make sure you and your partner are saving in synch, set a series of short, medium and long-term goals which you both aspire to achieve. That way, you’ll be able to stay on track and budget accordingly to reach the carrot dangling in front of you.

Leave room in your budget for separate spending too. Nearly half of respondents to SunTrust’s survey reported that they had different spending habits than their partners. Disproportionate spending is a breeding ground for resentment, so be sure when you’re planning your monthly budget to allocate an equal amount for each partner to use as they see fit, no questions asked. That way, an individual inclined to save more will have that chance, while someone inclined to spend more won’t need to ask permission. And because there’s a set cap on personal spending, the couples’ finances won’t get out of control.

Seek the services of a financial planner. Managing finances within the context of a relationship can be stressful because it is difficult to take the emotions out of a purely mathematical process. In such cases, consider consulting with a financial planner. You’ll receive an objective third-party opinion from an individual that can give you a clear path to meet your goals, as well as investing strategies that will be best suited for your lifestyle needs and wants.

Stop by any office of The Milford Bank to learn about the products you need to achieve your goals. You can also check out more information on our Learning Center here.

Calculating Your Net Worth: Five Common Questions

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by Mark Attanasio

Even if you never actually see your paycheck and it is automatically transferred to your bank account each week, you may still know how much you’re making—maybe even down to the penny. Most people are fully aware of their income. But when it comes to net worth, the story is entirely different.

This is problematic because, unlike your income, net worth encompasses all your assets and debts. Calculating your net worth can provide you with a true measure of your financial well being, as well as providing you the information you need to improve your fiscal standing.

To help you figure out what you need to know about net worth, here are some of the questions others are asking too.

What, exactly, is net worth?

There is a simple formula that easily defines net worth. Add up all your assets—income, savings, investments and property. Then subtract all your existing debts. The total is your net worth.

When will I need to know my net worth?

While you won’t need to keep track of your net worth on a day to day basis, there are critical moments when it’s a good idea to have a firm grasp of your true value. You may want to understand the long-term trends for your net worth (how quickly you’re making or losing value) when planning your retirement or your estate. You may need it when looking to secure a mortgage or apply for student loans on behalf of your children.

I can’t touch my retirement accounts for 30 years. Do they count?

Your liquid assets are only one part of the net worth equation. Even if you don’t receive a distribution from your 401(k) or IRA accounts now, they’re still considered a part of your net worth.

Do I have the same net worth as my spouse?

Depending on how you and your spouse manage your household finances, your net worth may be identical or it could be drastically different. If you’re both listed as co-owners of your home, share a credit card or car, those assets will be attributed to both of you. If you both purchased vehicles separately, only the vehicle to your name will be considered for your calculation. However, if you add your partner’s net worth to yours, you’ll know your household net worth, which itself is important to track.

How do you account for outstanding car loans and mortgage payments?

When incorporating existing loans into your net worth calculation, you cannot truly consider houses or vehicles as assets until they’ve been paid for in full. So if you took out a $100,000 mortgage and have paid off $99,000, your home is still considered a $1,000 liability. But once you’ve made your last payment your home becomes a $100,000 asset.

Now that you have a better grasp on your net worth, stop by any office of The Milford Bank to see how you can continue to improve your financial standing today. You can also learn more at our online Learning Center or check out more financial calculators here.

Six Things You May Not Know About Labor Day

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by Pat White

With Labor Day coming up on September 5—the first Monday of the month—many of us will be taking advantage of the impending three day weekend. Whether you’re using the chance to take one last weekend getaway to the beach before the end of summer, hosting a backyard party with your friends and family, or heading out to the mall to take advantage of Labor Day sales, we all have one thing in common—we’re grateful to have a little extra time for ourselves.

However you choose to spend your Labor Day, be sure to take a few moments to remember the meaning behind the holiday. We wouldn’t have the wages, benefits or time off that we enjoy today without the activism of our ancestors.

Here are five things you may not know about Labor Day to better educate you on the origins of the holiday.

  1. The idea for Labor Day is believed to have begun in Canada in 1872—22 years before it became a national holiday in the United States! In a show of solidarity for striking workers, 1,500 citizens from Hamilton, Ontario demonstrated in the streets. Their aim? A nine hour work day.
  2. Even though Labor Day became a national holiday in 1894, it was first celebrated in New York City by the Central Labor Union in 1882. Over the following 12 years, 23 states marked their own celebration before the Federal government opted to make it a universally recognized holiday.
  3. Congress voted unanimously to make Labor Day a national holiday in 1894, just six days after the conclusion of the Pullman Strike. During the strike, 125,000 railroad workers walked off the job to protest wage cuts without a corresponding decrease in rent and utility costs in their company-owned housing. During the strike 30 workers were killed, 57 were wounded and property damage exceeded $80 million.
  4. The average wage for a laborer during the 1890’s was 15 cents per hour. A skilled worker, such as a carpenter, would still expect to bring home an average of only 32 cents per hour.
  5. President Cleveland, though he supported the establishment of the Labor Day holiday, was fearful that empowering workers would give rise to strikes, riots and strengthen socialist and anarchist movements.
  6. The first minimum wage law was passed in New Zealand the same year that Labor Day was established as a national holiday.

Ultimately, we should not celebrate Labor Day without forgetting the activism and difficult conditions that workers endured in our recent past. Because those individuals were willing to stand up and fight for their rights, we now enjoy the fruits of rising wages, shorter work hours and better benefits.

All offices of The Milford Bank offices will be closed in observance of Memorial Day. Be sure to download our mobile application though, and you’ll be able to conduct your banking conveniently without having to stop at one of our locations. You can download the application here.